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Sunday, June 27, 2010 at 10:32pm

As of many other girls/ladies vanity is part of me… I lurve to look gd, i lurve to be in the limelight and i lurve to shine.. But there was no opportunity for me simply because i was plus size….

Not until Big and Beautiful (BAB) opens the door for me….I was selected to be on of their many girls to walk the runway (think project runway) for the 1st Ever Plus Size Runway Show in Singapore name ” Grand Et Beau”. From there friends were made, bonds were created what more can i say… Never in my entire life have i imagined to walk the runway and i mean it NEVER…..

And it doesnt stop there, i thought that was the last of my limelight days but never did i think that Miss Erica owner of BAB to called me to be involved in the Miss Amazing Singapore 2010 the first ever Plus Size Pageant (think Miss universe) to ever be held in Singapore… Damn!!! It was seriously a dream come true for me to be part of the team though i hesitated in the first place… Imagine for 25 over years ive been telling my mum ” Mother, if i send my application do u think they will pick me not?” Whenever i see the advertisement for MISS SINGAPORE UNIVERSE audition….And now i can tell the whole world irregardless of winning ” Hey i was in a pageant before you know bla bla bla”

Without Miss Erica from BAB i never ever imagine in my whole entire life to be part of all the Fashion Shows, Pageant and Photoshoots….

Oh and thats not all…. Being the owner of a blogshop BIG and BEAUTIFUL a boutique shall i say which caters for plus size ladies she definitely knows her customers very well… She knows what does n doesnt suits her customers… If she thinks u cant fit into the clothes or it doesnt looks nice on you she will not be a hypocrite to say ” Ooohhh that looks nice on you…” to just close a sale instead she will tell you that it doesnt look good on you and advice you on what is good on you… She knows her customer preferences for me example she knows that im into maxi dress and more into colours and that explains her new summer collection which i simply adores….If i have the money i will definitely buy 1 of each colour hahahahaha…..

At times u cannot help to hate BAB because they bring too much good stuffs that makes u part with the money but without BAB i do not know how i can survive….

BIG AND BEAUTIFUL is not only a plus size blog shop but its also a window which creates opportunities for all the BIG CURVY and BEAUTIFUL LADIES out there!!!

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Friday, May 14, 2010

I got to know about B.A.B through some google researches, and happened to came across a B.A.B makeover session last year. I had always wanted to have a makeover kind of portfolio taken for myself, to help boost my self confidence. I was a girl with very low self-esteem. To a point where I do not find a need to take any effort to doll myself up, or to treat myself to pretty clothes. Also, being a plus-size, shopping for pretty clothes of my size is quite like a mission to me, not forgetting about it’s sky high prices if they’re available. Shopping with my petite little sister doesnt help much as we’re both wearing very different sizes of clothes.

A photo of how I dressed myself up before.

A few days before my photoshoot, I shared with Erica, Founder of B.A.B, about my low self-esteem, and how not confident I was of myself. I then went ahead for the makeover photoshoot organized by B.A.B. During my photoshoot, I was quite shy and I have absolutely no confidence in my poses, my body and myself. It was only when Erica helped to direct and guide me through the poses and smiles when I feel more comfortable. She has taught me not to be bothered about how other people are going to think about me and such, as long as we are happy and confident with ourself. She has also taught me how to be comfortable in my own skin, and with my own body.

A selected picture of my Mini Makeover Photoshoot published in Chic Magazine.

Anyway, right after the photoshoot, I realized that B.A.B has many pretty plus sized apparels at affordable prices. Thus, I could not help thinking why shouldnt’ I treat myself to pretty clothings like these. After a couple of moments, a workshop was held to teach us how to wear a bra in a proper manner, and also the choosing of the correct bra sizes. I have learnt quite a lot from this workshop.

After attending the makeover photoshoot and workshop, I decided to be part of B.A.B mailing list where I will be updated on the latest updates on apparels or even events. One day, I saw the B.A.B updates on a upcoming Fashion Show and I was really excited, but at the same time I didnt have the confident that I have what it takes. Despite the low confidence in myself, my family and friends urged me to participate in the B.A.B Fashion show, so I decided to give it a try, and submitted my application.

I am honoured to be selected out of the 50 over plus-sized girls, to be one of the B.A.B Fashion Show Runway Model. I was both excited and over the moon. There were 3 rehearsals in all before the Big Day, and I missed my first rehearsal due to being infected with H1N1 virus and was hospitalized at that time. Missing my first rehearsal made me even more nervous of my performance.

When the big day has finally arrived, I was extremely nervous, as I have no experience in walking the runway, let alone wearing a 2 piece infront of so many people. Trying to keep my mind from running wild and mad from the loud booming music, I tried to stay composed and go ahead, whilst remembering what I have learnt from B.A.B. The poses, the smiles, the confidence in my eyes… etc. And, there I go, strutting down the runway, with the confidence that I have never displayed, showing people how comfortable I am in my skin and how confident I am with my body. With many people cheering and clapping down there, it is a feeling that is indescribable yet unforgettable. It was really a priceless experience for me.

After the Fashion Show, many people told us how well we’ve done. And it really makes me feel so good and confident about myself. Now, I am so into getting myself all dolled up, with eyeliner, lipstick and a little cherry blush cheeks, not forgetting all my pretty dresses and clothings from B.A.B. Many of my family, relatives and friends has noticed the change in me. The change of being bothered to make myself a more confident person that is comfortable in my own skin.

I owe this whole experience to Erica and B.A.B for giving me the opportunity to help me nurture my confidence. If not for her help, guidiance and encouragement, I would still be dressing up with my shabby oversized tshirts with bermudas.

Now, I am a contestant in the Miss/Ms Amazing Plus Size Beauty Pageant. I decided to participate in this contest, not hoping that I could win but just to experience this, as this is kind of a once in a life time experience for me.

To: All Plus Size Ladies out there,
It is those imperfections in you that made you so perfect of you are now. It is not what others think or feel about you that matters the most, but what you think and feel about yourself that really matters the most. LOVE YOURSELF.

Once again, I would like to thank Erica, B.A.B, my friends, loved ones and you plus-sized babes for your unconditional love and support that has helped me become who I am today, A Confident Plus Size Prettygirl

A picture taken recently.

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Thursday, July 1, 2010 at 1:33pm

As far as I can remember, I had to scarify good taste for comfort.

At most shops,my size starts when ‘their’ size stops. And the good one usually would cost me a bomb. Baggy T-shirt is a norm, paired with jeans. So was ill fitting blouses and skirts. And the colors range from black to black..I avoided prints or colors, simply because I cant find one that flatter my shape. And so, I end up tailor made my wardrobe, and that simply means a wait of 2-3 weeks. Even my lingerie is reduced to cotton grandmother panties up to my belly button. I never buy anything online, because the last time I did that I can not change the size when the item stuck on my butt..hahahahaha

I stumble into BAB when i browse for new patterns that I probably can tailor. At first I was so attracted to their corset range. Hubby was drooling over the colors and design. We keep coming back to the page, looking at the lingerers, well at least at his part. While I ventures to their other items. So after much debating with him, whom cant get his eyes off the corsets, i drop an email asking for sizes. BAB Girl replied within few days with so much good news. Not just they have my size, she even invite us to Admiralty to try it on.

Needless to say my first buy was a corset,plus a thong and a good sexy bare-back t-shirt. Wore the t-shirt to our 10th year anniversary dinner. While the corset, he cant take his hands off it.hahahaha..

That was the beginning of my love-hate relationship with BAB.Love everything,hate that I cant get all at once. The first time I wore colors to work, instead of my jean-t shirt staple, my boss think I lose weight.

Today, I have better fittings t-shirts and skirts. Even added some dresses and a maxi to my collections. I know I’ll keep coming back for more. BAB Girls are honest with their opinion. If it doesn’t look good on you, they will say it wont. . It feel more like having a friend shopping with you at all times. I enjoy the new experience tremendously.

Hubby love the lingerie segments. This time around, I don’t mind him buying, because I don’t have to squeeze my butt or thighs to make it fit. He love me in anything cute,girlish and lace. Help reignite the bedroom’s activities, he says. Today, I own a cute Lace Boylegs with Back Ribbon,without the ribbon being lost in my butt.That is already progress..hahahaha

Most People say, its not the clothes that make you. Its you that make the clothes work. For me, it works both way. If you wore good clothes, u feel confident and in turn u can make the clothes work.When my wardrobe grew, so is my self-esteem. People around me starts to notice. From lingerie, to clothes, shoes and now make-up. And to think it started with,first and foremost, a simple good fitting clothes.

Thank you BAB. I am a more confident person now(though I am not going to do anything drastic just as yet).I have good fitting clothes that flutter and enhance my body shape. I have colors. And a very grateful hubby..hahahahaha

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Yet another hectic week but this definitely had been an emotional week…

1. SAD – I just finished watching "UGLY BETTY" Season 4 last episode and was googling for Season 5 when I realised ABC decided to cut the show! THUNDER!!! So sad…boohoo… Loved that show then anyway…
2. HAPPY – But luckily "DROP DEAD DIVA" is here! The show’s really great! It explores the life of a skinny women whose soul is returned to the body of a plus size women. The script is so well written and every episode, I just see myself nodding with it.
3. EXCITED – The pageant are having their mall publicities! We be out in the public and I will be hosting most of the events! No matter how many times I may be standing on stage, I will still always be excited. That’s me! And the girls, wow, only another month to the grand finals. I am sure I will be seeing some of you there!
4. SUPER EXCITED – After 6 months, we have our fashion show video ready! Am literally smiling in my sleep just knowing that the video is ready! Nicely put togther by Jinyan, a petite little girl. Got to say a big thank you to Alvin Soe and team for the effort! Super nice!!! The memories were so overwhelming! Plus just about a week ago, we got featured in cnngo.com. So tell me, super excited anot?
5. OVERWHELMED - Together with the fashion show video, came along the special interview that Alvin did for B.A.B. The journey that B.A.B. had walked with you girls, making a profound difference and hearing it from the girls themselves, is just overwhelming. Like what happened during the interview, I was so moved that I cried once again. But those were of happy tears. Thanks, girls for believing in us and making it all happen.

With so much going on, I probably need some time to manage all the feelings. Hahaha. Well, definitely more to look forward to in the coming quarter with Celebrating Curves main events – photoshoot and music video on the way very soon…

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